Monday, January 11, 2010
Saturday, January 2, 2010
The 3 Rules Everyone Should Follow For Online Dating Success
Everyone, I would like you to raise your hand if you have a profile created on a dating site. If you are reading this, then I suspect that it might be you. This is great! You have now set yourself up for an opportunity to meet someone special. Sure, it may seem that for the first couple of months that you get "winks" from people that you have no interest in meeting but eventually, if you are patient, you may be lucky to find the person that you may be looking for. In my online dating experience, I have learned some important rules that will help guide you in finding the one person that you are looking for. Here are three rules that you should consider when you venture out online.
The first rule of the online dating game is to be patient. This is very important, and you must always remember that you will be going through a lot of profiles and getting responses from people that you have no interest in. This is a normal part of the online dating world and you have to be patient if you want to find that special someone.
This brings me to my second rule, have fun!! You are online, in your pajamas, chatting away with that potential someone and you get an instant message from another potential. This is so cool, just chat with them and see who you like better. Hey, the more people you talk with the better idea you will have for the kind of person that you are looking for.
The third and final rule is to set your priorities for what you are looking for. This is the most important rule. When you are looking for potentials, make sure that you are looking for the right things in people. Looks do fade but it is the person that stays. Best of luck in your search!
The first rule of the online dating game is to be patient. This is very important, and you must always remember that you will be going through a lot of profiles and getting responses from people that you have no interest in. This is a normal part of the online dating world and you have to be patient if you want to find that special someone.
This brings me to my second rule, have fun!! You are online, in your pajamas, chatting away with that potential someone and you get an instant message from another potential. This is so cool, just chat with them and see who you like better. Hey, the more people you talk with the better idea you will have for the kind of person that you are looking for.
The third and final rule is to set your priorities for what you are looking for. This is the most important rule. When you are looking for potentials, make sure that you are looking for the right things in people. Looks do fade but it is the person that stays. Best of luck in your search!
Dating is Like Buying a Cake
Well I'll say dating is like standing in a cake shop and wondering which one you want to have it and the confusion with it that whether it is the one you want it.......Most of the time we meet the people in our daily lives who are either boring, not your type or I must say just not right for you and we still end up dating few of them knowing that he or she is not the one.
But know we have choices with the online dating which provides us the avenue of meeting other individuals and date them and have more choices. But question here is to know how to know he is the one, how we should decide that he is just for fun or he is really the one. I'll say he should share a good wisdom and good sense of humor. Before deciding he is the one make sure you share same insight and enjoy the time you spend together .That he makes you laugh, talk, make you feel comfortable in your own way because life is a long journey and you want to make sure that you enjoy or I must say you want to cherish all the moments spent with that special someone. Life is a long journey but it is too short for compromises, anger and hatred; you really want to make sure that you choose someone you really are compassionate about.
Everyone has a passion they want to pursue in their life's you want to make sure that your special someone supports you with your dream. Both of you have to be considerate about each other's feelings and passions and support each other. Respecting each other's interest, hobbies, passion, career will increase love or you may say intimacy in your relationship. It will make your partner believe that you are respecting the relationship.
But know we have choices with the online dating which provides us the avenue of meeting other individuals and date them and have more choices. But question here is to know how to know he is the one, how we should decide that he is just for fun or he is really the one. I'll say he should share a good wisdom and good sense of humor. Before deciding he is the one make sure you share same insight and enjoy the time you spend together .That he makes you laugh, talk, make you feel comfortable in your own way because life is a long journey and you want to make sure that you enjoy or I must say you want to cherish all the moments spent with that special someone. Life is a long journey but it is too short for compromises, anger and hatred; you really want to make sure that you choose someone you really are compassionate about.
Everyone has a passion they want to pursue in their life's you want to make sure that your special someone supports you with your dream. Both of you have to be considerate about each other's feelings and passions and support each other. Respecting each other's interest, hobbies, passion, career will increase love or you may say intimacy in your relationship. It will make your partner believe that you are respecting the relationship.
Investment in relationship is like investing in shares
Well all of you must be thinking why I am saying that investing in relationship is like investing in shares, have I gone nuts , but believe me every relationship we are in , every time we fall for someone it's like gambling blindly without knowing what future holds... Like when you buy a particular share of the company you study their charts, profits company made, their company profile, but you still can't predict that its profitable to invest in that share, whether this share will make the amount of profit you are expecting like when you start dating you don't know what you are going ahead with the relationship, what you know about the person is what they are doing professionally , where they are residing ,what are their hobbies , what you don't know is that what future hold for both of you .
But there is a saying higher the risk the greater the rewards tend to be , what I mean by saying this is that you have to take chances in your life , whether its investing money in shares or investing emotions and time in a relationship to find someone with whom you can spend your entire life . You should be strong enough to make your decisions what you really want .Share value of company is affected by the current and future performance of the company, likewise relationship performance depends upon how each partner is willing to put in the relationship. So go ahead take your chances, live your life to the fullest. Fall in love and give your best in your relationship without worrying about what future holds because you can never predict about share and a relationship.....Enjoy your life...............
But there is a saying higher the risk the greater the rewards tend to be , what I mean by saying this is that you have to take chances in your life , whether its investing money in shares or investing emotions and time in a relationship to find someone with whom you can spend your entire life . You should be strong enough to make your decisions what you really want .Share value of company is affected by the current and future performance of the company, likewise relationship performance depends upon how each partner is willing to put in the relationship. So go ahead take your chances, live your life to the fullest. Fall in love and give your best in your relationship without worrying about what future holds because you can never predict about share and a relationship.....Enjoy your life...............
How to get someone interested in your profile
The most important question arises in your mind when you start creating a profile in a dating or matrimony site that," How to get someone interested in your profile". I remember when I created my profile to find someone special whom now, I am married too, what I should do?
There are some rules that everyone should follow when trying to attract people to come visit their profile. The first and most important thing that you should do is look for a nice picture that shows what type of message that you want to convey about yourself. This is probably the most difficult, time consuming process but when you find the right picture and finally post that picture to your trusted matchmaking website this process will be very rewarding. The reason why I mention the picture first is simple, advertising. You are essentially advertising to the world that you look like somebody that the searcher would want to know. Your picture is what will draws your audience in and it is the words that you write to describe yourself in your profile that will keep people drawn to you.
After you have selected a nice picture, you have to write about your profile. When you write your profile, you should be honest with yourself and put on paper the words that describe you and the type of person that you are looking for. When you write about yourself, you should talk about your profession. Describe what your work is and let people know how great it is to do what you do. You should then include in yourself description, what activities you enjoy most. If you enjoy knitting, add it to your description.
Now you are ready to write about what you are looking for in a person. This is very important because this is where people that search your profile evaluate themselves against your criteria to determine if they match your requirements. So, please take your time and think about what are the qualities that are important to you. If you feel that having a sense of humor is very important then you should emphasize this quality in your partner preferences. Great, so far you have accomplished a lot. You have posted a nice picture of yourself, you finished describing how great you are, and you have written the type of person that you are looking for. So, what is next? What is next, are the questionnaires that are provided by the site. I know that this is a long process but these questions are there for a reason. They help the person doing the searching drill down on your qualities and use the search engine to find you. By answering these questions completely and filling out your profile in detail, you will have a better chance of attracting people to your profile.
There are some rules that everyone should follow when trying to attract people to come visit their profile. The first and most important thing that you should do is look for a nice picture that shows what type of message that you want to convey about yourself. This is probably the most difficult, time consuming process but when you find the right picture and finally post that picture to your trusted matchmaking website this process will be very rewarding. The reason why I mention the picture first is simple, advertising. You are essentially advertising to the world that you look like somebody that the searcher would want to know. Your picture is what will draws your audience in and it is the words that you write to describe yourself in your profile that will keep people drawn to you.
After you have selected a nice picture, you have to write about your profile. When you write your profile, you should be honest with yourself and put on paper the words that describe you and the type of person that you are looking for. When you write about yourself, you should talk about your profession. Describe what your work is and let people know how great it is to do what you do. You should then include in yourself description, what activities you enjoy most. If you enjoy knitting, add it to your description.
Now you are ready to write about what you are looking for in a person. This is very important because this is where people that search your profile evaluate themselves against your criteria to determine if they match your requirements. So, please take your time and think about what are the qualities that are important to you. If you feel that having a sense of humor is very important then you should emphasize this quality in your partner preferences. Great, so far you have accomplished a lot. You have posted a nice picture of yourself, you finished describing how great you are, and you have written the type of person that you are looking for. So, what is next? What is next, are the questionnaires that are provided by the site. I know that this is a long process but these questions are there for a reason. They help the person doing the searching drill down on your qualities and use the search engine to find you. By answering these questions completely and filling out your profile in detail, you will have a better chance of attracting people to your profile.
Love Happens
Love happens when you least expect it , what I mean by saying that is don't shut down yourself on love , love is the most precious thing in this world and it will come your way when you least expect it , it will cherish you , give you the support you long for . I believe in it and I want you to believe in it. There many people proving their theories psychology that love doesn't exist it's just infatuation or it is just lust. They don't embrace the most beautiful thing god gave us to cherish when we are alive. Why are they trying to find faults in something which they themselves want? Everyone I know in this world wants to fall in love, want a relationship that will last forever .So, why hide from it by saying it doesn't exist. Love is the most amazing, pure and blessed feeling in this world, and when it happens don't hold yourself back , express it to the one you love, say it, express it ,feel it and cherish it. Give your unconditional love to the person make them feel special, expect nothing in return and you will see your love and relationship blossoming. When your relationship will blossom you'll feel more content and happy. So I'll say fall in love and experience the happiness you deserve.
Why find love?
Have you ever really thought about why you really need someone? This is a serious question that really requires some thought. Is it because it is the social norm that is required of us once we reach a certain age or is it because we are not truly complete unless we find that special someone. I remember when I was searching, and my married friends would tell me to stay single and enjoy it while it last. Then, I would have other friends tell me, how there is nothing like being married and having someone there to share your life with. So, there are two schools of thought on this subject. People that are not happy with their marriage that miss the single days and people that were truly born on the day they got married. I hope that you the reader are the one that really was born the day you got married. Why find love? Because there is nothing like having love in your life. To finally have someone to share your thoughts, dreams, and to grow old with. Someone to understand you, and take care of you when you are sick. So, why find love? Why not.
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