Monday, January 11, 2010
Saturday, January 2, 2010
The 3 Rules Everyone Should Follow For Online Dating Success
Everyone, I would like you to raise your hand if you have a profile created on a dating site. If you are reading this, then I suspect that it might be you. This is great! You have now set yourself up for an opportunity to meet someone special. Sure, it may seem that for the first couple of months that you get "winks" from people that you have no interest in meeting but eventually, if you are patient, you may be lucky to find the person that you may be looking for. In my online dating experience, I have learned some important rules that will help guide you in finding the one person that you are looking for. Here are three rules that you should consider when you venture out online.
The first rule of the online dating game is to be patient. This is very important, and you must always remember that you will be going through a lot of profiles and getting responses from people that you have no interest in. This is a normal part of the online dating world and you have to be patient if you want to find that special someone.
This brings me to my second rule, have fun!! You are online, in your pajamas, chatting away with that potential someone and you get an instant message from another potential. This is so cool, just chat with them and see who you like better. Hey, the more people you talk with the better idea you will have for the kind of person that you are looking for.
The third and final rule is to set your priorities for what you are looking for. This is the most important rule. When you are looking for potentials, make sure that you are looking for the right things in people. Looks do fade but it is the person that stays. Best of luck in your search!
The first rule of the online dating game is to be patient. This is very important, and you must always remember that you will be going through a lot of profiles and getting responses from people that you have no interest in. This is a normal part of the online dating world and you have to be patient if you want to find that special someone.
This brings me to my second rule, have fun!! You are online, in your pajamas, chatting away with that potential someone and you get an instant message from another potential. This is so cool, just chat with them and see who you like better. Hey, the more people you talk with the better idea you will have for the kind of person that you are looking for.
The third and final rule is to set your priorities for what you are looking for. This is the most important rule. When you are looking for potentials, make sure that you are looking for the right things in people. Looks do fade but it is the person that stays. Best of luck in your search!
Dating is Like Buying a Cake
Well I'll say dating is like standing in a cake shop and wondering which one you want to have it and the confusion with it that whether it is the one you want it.......Most of the time we meet the people in our daily lives who are either boring, not your type or I must say just not right for you and we still end up dating few of them knowing that he or she is not the one.
But know we have choices with the online dating which provides us the avenue of meeting other individuals and date them and have more choices. But question here is to know how to know he is the one, how we should decide that he is just for fun or he is really the one. I'll say he should share a good wisdom and good sense of humor. Before deciding he is the one make sure you share same insight and enjoy the time you spend together .That he makes you laugh, talk, make you feel comfortable in your own way because life is a long journey and you want to make sure that you enjoy or I must say you want to cherish all the moments spent with that special someone. Life is a long journey but it is too short for compromises, anger and hatred; you really want to make sure that you choose someone you really are compassionate about.
Everyone has a passion they want to pursue in their life's you want to make sure that your special someone supports you with your dream. Both of you have to be considerate about each other's feelings and passions and support each other. Respecting each other's interest, hobbies, passion, career will increase love or you may say intimacy in your relationship. It will make your partner believe that you are respecting the relationship.
But know we have choices with the online dating which provides us the avenue of meeting other individuals and date them and have more choices. But question here is to know how to know he is the one, how we should decide that he is just for fun or he is really the one. I'll say he should share a good wisdom and good sense of humor. Before deciding he is the one make sure you share same insight and enjoy the time you spend together .That he makes you laugh, talk, make you feel comfortable in your own way because life is a long journey and you want to make sure that you enjoy or I must say you want to cherish all the moments spent with that special someone. Life is a long journey but it is too short for compromises, anger and hatred; you really want to make sure that you choose someone you really are compassionate about.
Everyone has a passion they want to pursue in their life's you want to make sure that your special someone supports you with your dream. Both of you have to be considerate about each other's feelings and passions and support each other. Respecting each other's interest, hobbies, passion, career will increase love or you may say intimacy in your relationship. It will make your partner believe that you are respecting the relationship.
Investment in relationship is like investing in shares
Well all of you must be thinking why I am saying that investing in relationship is like investing in shares, have I gone nuts , but believe me every relationship we are in , every time we fall for someone it's like gambling blindly without knowing what future holds... Like when you buy a particular share of the company you study their charts, profits company made, their company profile, but you still can't predict that its profitable to invest in that share, whether this share will make the amount of profit you are expecting like when you start dating you don't know what you are going ahead with the relationship, what you know about the person is what they are doing professionally , where they are residing ,what are their hobbies , what you don't know is that what future hold for both of you .
But there is a saying higher the risk the greater the rewards tend to be , what I mean by saying this is that you have to take chances in your life , whether its investing money in shares or investing emotions and time in a relationship to find someone with whom you can spend your entire life . You should be strong enough to make your decisions what you really want .Share value of company is affected by the current and future performance of the company, likewise relationship performance depends upon how each partner is willing to put in the relationship. So go ahead take your chances, live your life to the fullest. Fall in love and give your best in your relationship without worrying about what future holds because you can never predict about share and a relationship.....Enjoy your life...............
But there is a saying higher the risk the greater the rewards tend to be , what I mean by saying this is that you have to take chances in your life , whether its investing money in shares or investing emotions and time in a relationship to find someone with whom you can spend your entire life . You should be strong enough to make your decisions what you really want .Share value of company is affected by the current and future performance of the company, likewise relationship performance depends upon how each partner is willing to put in the relationship. So go ahead take your chances, live your life to the fullest. Fall in love and give your best in your relationship without worrying about what future holds because you can never predict about share and a relationship.....Enjoy your life...............
How to get someone interested in your profile
The most important question arises in your mind when you start creating a profile in a dating or matrimony site that," How to get someone interested in your profile". I remember when I created my profile to find someone special whom now, I am married too, what I should do?
There are some rules that everyone should follow when trying to attract people to come visit their profile. The first and most important thing that you should do is look for a nice picture that shows what type of message that you want to convey about yourself. This is probably the most difficult, time consuming process but when you find the right picture and finally post that picture to your trusted matchmaking website this process will be very rewarding. The reason why I mention the picture first is simple, advertising. You are essentially advertising to the world that you look like somebody that the searcher would want to know. Your picture is what will draws your audience in and it is the words that you write to describe yourself in your profile that will keep people drawn to you.
After you have selected a nice picture, you have to write about your profile. When you write your profile, you should be honest with yourself and put on paper the words that describe you and the type of person that you are looking for. When you write about yourself, you should talk about your profession. Describe what your work is and let people know how great it is to do what you do. You should then include in yourself description, what activities you enjoy most. If you enjoy knitting, add it to your description.
Now you are ready to write about what you are looking for in a person. This is very important because this is where people that search your profile evaluate themselves against your criteria to determine if they match your requirements. So, please take your time and think about what are the qualities that are important to you. If you feel that having a sense of humor is very important then you should emphasize this quality in your partner preferences. Great, so far you have accomplished a lot. You have posted a nice picture of yourself, you finished describing how great you are, and you have written the type of person that you are looking for. So, what is next? What is next, are the questionnaires that are provided by the site. I know that this is a long process but these questions are there for a reason. They help the person doing the searching drill down on your qualities and use the search engine to find you. By answering these questions completely and filling out your profile in detail, you will have a better chance of attracting people to your profile.
There are some rules that everyone should follow when trying to attract people to come visit their profile. The first and most important thing that you should do is look for a nice picture that shows what type of message that you want to convey about yourself. This is probably the most difficult, time consuming process but when you find the right picture and finally post that picture to your trusted matchmaking website this process will be very rewarding. The reason why I mention the picture first is simple, advertising. You are essentially advertising to the world that you look like somebody that the searcher would want to know. Your picture is what will draws your audience in and it is the words that you write to describe yourself in your profile that will keep people drawn to you.
After you have selected a nice picture, you have to write about your profile. When you write your profile, you should be honest with yourself and put on paper the words that describe you and the type of person that you are looking for. When you write about yourself, you should talk about your profession. Describe what your work is and let people know how great it is to do what you do. You should then include in yourself description, what activities you enjoy most. If you enjoy knitting, add it to your description.
Now you are ready to write about what you are looking for in a person. This is very important because this is where people that search your profile evaluate themselves against your criteria to determine if they match your requirements. So, please take your time and think about what are the qualities that are important to you. If you feel that having a sense of humor is very important then you should emphasize this quality in your partner preferences. Great, so far you have accomplished a lot. You have posted a nice picture of yourself, you finished describing how great you are, and you have written the type of person that you are looking for. So, what is next? What is next, are the questionnaires that are provided by the site. I know that this is a long process but these questions are there for a reason. They help the person doing the searching drill down on your qualities and use the search engine to find you. By answering these questions completely and filling out your profile in detail, you will have a better chance of attracting people to your profile.
Love Happens
Love happens when you least expect it , what I mean by saying that is don't shut down yourself on love , love is the most precious thing in this world and it will come your way when you least expect it , it will cherish you , give you the support you long for . I believe in it and I want you to believe in it. There many people proving their theories psychology that love doesn't exist it's just infatuation or it is just lust. They don't embrace the most beautiful thing god gave us to cherish when we are alive. Why are they trying to find faults in something which they themselves want? Everyone I know in this world wants to fall in love, want a relationship that will last forever .So, why hide from it by saying it doesn't exist. Love is the most amazing, pure and blessed feeling in this world, and when it happens don't hold yourself back , express it to the one you love, say it, express it ,feel it and cherish it. Give your unconditional love to the person make them feel special, expect nothing in return and you will see your love and relationship blossoming. When your relationship will blossom you'll feel more content and happy. So I'll say fall in love and experience the happiness you deserve.
Why find love?
Have you ever really thought about why you really need someone? This is a serious question that really requires some thought. Is it because it is the social norm that is required of us once we reach a certain age or is it because we are not truly complete unless we find that special someone. I remember when I was searching, and my married friends would tell me to stay single and enjoy it while it last. Then, I would have other friends tell me, how there is nothing like being married and having someone there to share your life with. So, there are two schools of thought on this subject. People that are not happy with their marriage that miss the single days and people that were truly born on the day they got married. I hope that you the reader are the one that really was born the day you got married. Why find love? Because there is nothing like having love in your life. To finally have someone to share your thoughts, dreams, and to grow old with. Someone to understand you, and take care of you when you are sick. So, why find love? Why not.
Keep Trying: Matrimony and Dating Advice
There is an old saying "Practice makes the person perfect", interesting fact but you must be thinking why I am mentioning this, because many times while you are looking for someone to have that special bond ,special relationship, you face failures and left with the hurt feelings .
Sometimes you have to take chances in your life to achieve success. You have to keep moving forward and try again and again till you find someone who is perfect for you. I remember when I was dating and looking for my someone special , I faced lot of setbacks , sometimes I felt disheartened , lonely and thought I couldn't find him ,but one thing I never did was stop trying and because of which now I am happily married to the person whom I truly love . Stay positive and focused, if you have an online dating account make sure you visit it daily and keep it updated. Find inner satisfaction in trying; look forward in opening your profile and seeing who has shown interest in your profile.
Have no regrets if you don't like the profile that are showing interest in you or not getting response from the individuals you are interested in, just keep trying and keep looking, I am sure you'll find your true love sooner or later .So I would personally say whatever you are doing whether dating or looking for someone to get married never stop trying. Keep trying your best and leave the rest on your destiny, be patient and the rest will come around to give you the happiness that you deserve.
Sometimes you have to take chances in your life to achieve success. You have to keep moving forward and try again and again till you find someone who is perfect for you. I remember when I was dating and looking for my someone special , I faced lot of setbacks , sometimes I felt disheartened , lonely and thought I couldn't find him ,but one thing I never did was stop trying and because of which now I am happily married to the person whom I truly love . Stay positive and focused, if you have an online dating account make sure you visit it daily and keep it updated. Find inner satisfaction in trying; look forward in opening your profile and seeing who has shown interest in your profile.
Have no regrets if you don't like the profile that are showing interest in you or not getting response from the individuals you are interested in, just keep trying and keep looking, I am sure you'll find your true love sooner or later .So I would personally say whatever you are doing whether dating or looking for someone to get married never stop trying. Keep trying your best and leave the rest on your destiny, be patient and the rest will come around to give you the happiness that you deserve.
Send that wink
To wink or not to wink that is the question. When you are online looking at a profile, how many times have you thought to your self that maybe you should send a wink to that person but you fear that you might not get a response or they might not be interested in your profile. Rejections are always hard to handle but the ability to handle and cope with rejection is actually a major part of online dating. Look at it this way, everyone are strangers on the internet. So, if you get rejected based on your profile, do not worry and please do not take it personal. Rejections is part of the online dating and if you are brave enough to be rejected, then you will be brave enough to send winks to profiles that you are truly interested in. Think of the opportunities for happiness that may exist and think about your future. Finding someone to complement your life is very important for your growth and maturity as a person. If you are looking to spend meaningful time with another human being, to share your thoughts and emotions, and to live for a connection then please send that wink. Opening up your self for a chance that a connection may happen is worth the risk of rejection. So, the next time you log in to your dating or matrimony site be brave and take a chance. Do not worry about rejection; think about opportunities that may be lost. Live for opportunities and please, send that wink.
Blind Date
Have you ever had a friend that mentioned, "Hey, you got any plans tonight? Because, I know someone that is perfect for you and both of you all should meet." So, what should you do? What you should do depends on how much value you place in your friend's judgment for playing matchmaker. If you feel that your friend understands exactly the type of person that you are looking for and you trust your friend enough for them to care about your well being, then you should consider their offer. After all, how bad can a blind date be? I know what you are thinking but remember you are looking for opportunities to meet people.
If you are isolated in your room playing playstation all day, it is hard to meet anyone. Unless, you created an avatar and roaming the digital universe casting dungeon and dragon love potion spells on some good looking elves. Now, you think about it a blind date is perhaps not so bad after all and maybe this is exactly something that you may need to get yourself out of the house and to start to meet people.
Alright, so you have agreed to go on your blind date. So, what is the next step? The next step is to pick up a phone and make a call to your blind date and introduce your self. Remember, do not be nervous and open up your conversation with an ice breaker. Tell your blind date how much you are looking forward to meeting them and you are just looking at this as an opportunity to meet someone nice and to have a nice dinner.
Great, so you now had your opening conversation with your blind date, and you set up a place to meet. You did set a place to meet, right? Ok, so where is a good place to meet for a blind date. The standard dating venue is a nice restaurant that is lively and that creates a fun environment for you and your date. You want to set your self up for success, so you have to plan.
Now, you have arrived at the dating venue and this date can go two ways. One, when your date arrives, you want to call your friend and thank them for thinking about you and express how wonderful they are. The second is that you tell your friend to forget your phone number and then take out a restraining order on them. So, hopefully your date will go well and perhaps this day would lead to a long term relationship. But, just in case always have an exit strategy ready.
Just in case that you misjudge your friend completely, and you realize they have no idea about the type of person that you are looking for, you need to have your exit strategy ready. When you are on your blind date, you should be respectful enough to at least have an appetizer and drinks. Then execute your exit plan and close the date nicely and respectfully. This is part of the adventures of trying to find your soul mate. Good luck on your next blind date.
If you are isolated in your room playing playstation all day, it is hard to meet anyone. Unless, you created an avatar and roaming the digital universe casting dungeon and dragon love potion spells on some good looking elves. Now, you think about it a blind date is perhaps not so bad after all and maybe this is exactly something that you may need to get yourself out of the house and to start to meet people.
Alright, so you have agreed to go on your blind date. So, what is the next step? The next step is to pick up a phone and make a call to your blind date and introduce your self. Remember, do not be nervous and open up your conversation with an ice breaker. Tell your blind date how much you are looking forward to meeting them and you are just looking at this as an opportunity to meet someone nice and to have a nice dinner.
Great, so you now had your opening conversation with your blind date, and you set up a place to meet. You did set a place to meet, right? Ok, so where is a good place to meet for a blind date. The standard dating venue is a nice restaurant that is lively and that creates a fun environment for you and your date. You want to set your self up for success, so you have to plan.
Now, you have arrived at the dating venue and this date can go two ways. One, when your date arrives, you want to call your friend and thank them for thinking about you and express how wonderful they are. The second is that you tell your friend to forget your phone number and then take out a restraining order on them. So, hopefully your date will go well and perhaps this day would lead to a long term relationship. But, just in case always have an exit strategy ready.
Just in case that you misjudge your friend completely, and you realize they have no idea about the type of person that you are looking for, you need to have your exit strategy ready. When you are on your blind date, you should be respectful enough to at least have an appetizer and drinks. Then execute your exit plan and close the date nicely and respectfully. This is part of the adventures of trying to find your soul mate. Good luck on your next blind date.
Where is Mr. Right?
I remember since my sixteenth birthday most of people telling me that someone somewhere is made for you, and you just need to look and find him. Well what they never told me is how to find him, where to look for him and how to judge whether he is the Mr. Right. Everything is fantasy in your life, you start believing that one day some prince charming will come and you fall head over heels in love with him. And then you turn eighteen and started dating , a long process where your one of your friends introduces you to a guy and you think you are too good for him and he is the last person you want to see again in your Life.
There is an endless struggle of dating and rejecting that follows. In this endless struggle sometimes you meet some people and you start assuming that they are the one and you are unable to understand the difference between love right now and the love which is meant to be for you. Each time you fall in love it seems like this is the one which is right, you feel that he is your Mr. Right. But I'll suggest think harder when your heart starts saying he is your Mr. Right. I know it's impossible to think from your brains that time because everything seems so right. But evaluate the pros and cons, think with your brain, think about your future before you say that he is your Mr. Right.
There is an endless struggle of dating and rejecting that follows. In this endless struggle sometimes you meet some people and you start assuming that they are the one and you are unable to understand the difference between love right now and the love which is meant to be for you. Each time you fall in love it seems like this is the one which is right, you feel that he is your Mr. Right. But I'll suggest think harder when your heart starts saying he is your Mr. Right. I know it's impossible to think from your brains that time because everything seems so right. But evaluate the pros and cons, think with your brain, think about your future before you say that he is your Mr. Right.
Online Dating Framework
In the world of business there are frameworks that are developed and deployed to help corporations and government agencies help manage work to better serve their customers. People make a living by earning certifications to become experts in deploying solutions that help impact organizational productivity and efficiency. When researching and exploring best practices on management topics; I have come to realize that there are thousands of frameworks available to choose from for helping you do work. What I did not see in my research is that there is no framework established for online dating.
There is a need today to establish a framework to help guide the consumer in their search for their potential mate. The dating framework that is established is simple and consists of three steps. This is a living document that will be modified and will be updated based on further analysis.
There is a need today to establish a framework to help guide the consumer in their search for their potential mate. The dating framework that is established is simple and consists of three steps. This is a living document that will be modified and will be updated based on further analysis.
1. Self Assessment. You need to look at your self and determine what it that you are really looking for in a partner. Create a list and brainstorm the characteristic traits that are important to you. Then create a list of traits that you dislike in a person, and then look at both list and make an assessment of your needs and wants.
2. Start researching and find out who is available in the market. Go sign up on some dating websites and start searching to see who is available in their database. The process to search is usually free, so start searching your area and see who is available in the market.
3. Look for an online dating site that you can your partner. There are a lot of dating sites that are out there for you to choose and start your search. You should find a web site that you can trust, and that you have the best chance in finding someone that you can love.
2. Start researching and find out who is available in the market. Go sign up on some dating websites and start searching to see who is available in their database. The process to search is usually free, so start searching your area and see who is available in the market.
3. Look for an online dating site that you can your partner. There are a lot of dating sites that are out there for you to choose and start your search. You should find a web site that you can trust, and that you have the best chance in finding someone that you can love.
Guilt - Get rid of it
Guilt is like a chest with congestion filled with mucus, which is not easy to get rid of. But if you try and take measures you can reduce it. Events occur in everyone's life which they are not proud of. When they think about them they wish they wouldn't have done them. But one thing is sure how much you try you can never turn the clock back. You cannot undo the things which are already done. But you can improve yourself, your life with getting yourself on right path by deciding you will lead a right and valuable life and decide to incorporate with deeds of helping people in whatever way you can. One thing, I am sure of is helping people will help you the release that guilt congestion which you are carrying on your soul. So try to improve your life by deciding that you will be a better human being. You will follow you heart, you will think twice before you do anything. Most important think you have to also make sure you are polite and nice to people around you. You shall not use mean and rude words and behavior to anybody around you. Be polite to one another and treat everyone equal and the respect that they deserve.
Three ways to screw up a date on purpose
There are a lot of articles out there that discuss how to find true love or how to make a great date work. Performing a search on the internet, results yield very little information on how to screw up a date. So, why would you want to ever screw up a date? Why is this author writing about something so ridiculous? I know what you are thinking but please let me explain. For example, say that there is a situation in which your parents are completely in love with their best friend's son. He is the toast of the town and has everything going for him. He won the spelling bee when he was in third grade, quarterback of the high school football team, and is now going to be in med school. So, what is there not to love about this person? Perhaps, he does not have any tattoos or he is not a musician. Whatever your case of reasoning may be, there is a reason why you do not want to make this date work. So, this is where I come in; your very own personal date blocker from the stars. Here we go, the top three ways to screw up a date:
1. You should tell your date how much you are in love with them and that you want to have an exclusive relationship starting right after appetizers.
2. Talk about how the appetizers makes you feel "gassy". When you say this, make sure you make a facial expression that emphasizes "gassy". Please repeat this statement as many times as you feel is required.
3. Discuss how your psycho ex-boyfriend has put a restraining order on you and that you do not understand why all of your ex-boyfriends do this.
I hope this advice offers some help to you in your journey in finding true happiness by removing the daters that send you in the wrong direction.
1. You should tell your date how much you are in love with them and that you want to have an exclusive relationship starting right after appetizers.
2. Talk about how the appetizers makes you feel "gassy". When you say this, make sure you make a facial expression that emphasizes "gassy". Please repeat this statement as many times as you feel is required.
3. Discuss how your psycho ex-boyfriend has put a restraining order on you and that you do not understand why all of your ex-boyfriends do this.
I hope this advice offers some help to you in your journey in finding true happiness by removing the daters that send you in the wrong direction.
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